Saturday, October 8, 2016

wedding photography/ videography

the key vendors that we explored were for our pre and actual day wedding photography and videography.

for photography, while han yang wasn't too fussed, i was. i didn't want amateur photography, but i knew we weren't ready to put in too much money for something too premium. to be honest, i was a bit annoyed at how people make use of this once in a lifetime wedding to intentionally charge more. referring to those who put a ridiculous premium when they do wedding-related services. 

we asked around friends who had recently gotten engaged/ married, and they recommended a few photographers/videographers. many quoted anywhere from 1k+ to 2k+ for a full day, or offered packages of pre-wedding and actual day photography/videography (high 2k to 4k plus). but it just didn't feel right to me somehow, because pre-wedding, actual day photography and videography required totally different skill sets and it would have been near impossible to find someone who fitted everything. these were my requirements:

1) pre-wedding photography: good at casual, non-posed, natural shots. creative in framing/ editing 
2) pre-wedding videography: doesn't need to be overly artistic with the setup or concept, just gotta look professional and string together a story well enough to engage audience. had to capture the essence of how God's grace and love brought us together and sustained our relationship
3) actual day photography: good at framing the big picture, doesn't need to be artistic in editing; technical flair more important
4) actual day videography: capturing important moments

we found our pre-wedding photographer, Andri, by chance, as one of my friends engaged him for their actual day. i checked his work out, and really liked the rawness of locations he shot in, the realness of the expressions that he was able to capture, and his artistic direction. not only that, he offered half-day (3 hr) shoots at a fraction of the cost, and it was extremely reasonable! not only that, when we met up with him, he said we were able to split our 3 hr session into two 1.5 hr sessions so that we could capture sunrise and late afternoon, where lighting was amazing and softer respectively. he was also real helpful in getting us into different poses that turned out really nice!

these are some edited shots:
we took the shots at portsdown road! they have soft sunlight streaming in at around 7am, so we had to be up really early to catch the light before it got too sunny.

prior to this shoot i don't think we had hugged, caressed each others' faces or touched each others' noses so much in a day. it was quite fun :3





in the afternoon, we went to jalan besar (practically where i live, since my workplace and church is there, i'm there 6 days of the week). love this neighbourhood where things are so untouched. we chanced upon a cafe AEIOU which made the perfect spot for our cheongsam vintagey shots. the owners were really sweet about us crashing the cafe too.






andri also provided us with 300+ unedited shots from the sessions. we loved them, even in their unedited form:
the colours were amazing even without editing



i love this photo for secret reasons.

 don't remember what was exchanged, but i remember how i felt :D



i thought 3 hours was just about right for a simple 2 location shoot. we had more than enough photos from 3 hours, and we even had time to rest up a little between late morning and early afternoon, and to freshen up for the 2nd session. think it would have been pretty hectic and tiring if it was a 6 hr shoot.

we also got andri to print our photos on a premium leather photobook because he had showed us a sample during our initial meeting and i got to feel the quality of the book and paper. the price was also not too far off from the DIY/cheaper options offered online and i didn't want to go through the hassle of fretting about the design myself, so i went ahead and got it printed:

it was a good decision. he also included in a stack of small square prints in a wooden box, together with a thumb drive of the photos. our pre-wedding photography turned out satisfactory, and much more fun than i imagined.

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for actual day wedding photography, it was a little harder to find, especially as we were sourcing in the last 3 months, and a few of those that caught our eye were already booked up. we wanted to go with someone who did wedding photography in our church (merv kwok), but he wasn't free. explored asking a friend who did it as a hobby as we were not fussed in needing a full time professional, and plus he took beautiful photos. he was not up for it but offered to be the secondary photographer.

eventually, i chanced upon ashley's photos, also through asking friends. if i'm not mistaken, he is currently studying film/media in poly. he does photography in our church, but has never done wedding photography. i was quite keen for him to take our photos because i support budding talents, haha.
after multiple efforts of bugging him, he finally relented. he was apprehensive at first since it was his first time. but yay, we were very pleased at how his photos turned out, though i should have also told him to focus on some of the peripherals, like the wedding setup and favours, which were so beautifully done up by my sis and friends, but i felt there could have been more coverage. but i think that on my part, i should have communicated this across to him. overall, i'm still super satisfied! here're just a few:












and here're some from my 2nd photographer, benson. they were equally lovely, and i really liked the soft look of the editing:








more to come :)

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for videography, we got Jeshua to do our pre and actual day. jeshua is also another (super young) talent who does videography well, but also many other things as well (he shared some interesting ideas in the works, of interesting business models - eg. camera equipment rental at extremely low cost, shaking other players in market, low cost video production for startups, etc).

for pre-wedding videography, we wanted it entirely frills-free - no multiple location flash backs and dressing up/ looking good/ changes of outfits - we just wanted to tell our story, as authentic and straight forward as possible. i felt that this was an important part of the actual day programme, as it was the key point for the audience to get to know who we were as a couple, especially since many only knew just one of us, or not at all. to be technical, our programme for the day had to flow seamlessly, and each part of it couldn't be too lengthy/ bore the audience, but it had to present facades of who we were/ contribute towards the main gist of our message - which was thankfulness to God and our loved ones. the video was pivotal in engaging the audience for the rest of the ceremony/ dinner.

well, i must say he did a good job. it told our story and made many laugh. not only that, pricing was also reasonable since it was a 2-3 hour shoot over 1 night:

i watched it so many times cos i just found it so hilarious! i liked it that it ended with our jamming audio, but the voice/piano was rather cringe-worthy cos Jeshua told us he was gonna just take filler shots and not the audio. so we anyhow-ed and he played the song in an extremely awkward key for me. we tried to salvage people's impressions of a deluded couple who had retirement dreams of jamming by singing/playing properly during the dinner. haha.

for actual wedding video, his portfolio was rather comprehensive, and i liked the angles/ shots that he captured, so we went ahead with him too! video still in production as we didn't do same day edit, will share when we get a cut of it! 


Pre-wedding photography: Andri Tei
Actual wedding photgraphy: Ashley Teo, Benson Ang
Pre and actual wedding videography: Jeshua Soh Productions

Friday, October 7, 2016

reli(e)ve

i must say, life without wedding planning has been lovely. no deadlines, no vendors to follow up with (except those at work), no urgent to-dos, no opening taobao app/websites on the way to work to look at wedding gowns, no coming up with a long list of logistics to buy for the deco/favours.

in the weeks leading up to the wedding, i was extremely stressed and perpetually cranky as i was trying to finish a huge pile at work and juggling the planning. it didn't help that i had decided to do things from scratch (favours, decor, invites), and that added a lot of last minute stress to me and my sis, who was coordinating all the aesthetics related stuff. 

but looking back, i would still have made the choice to DIY stuff, because i really loved how everything turned out in the end! at least i was rather chill on that day. not to mention, han yang and i really enjoyed ourselves, seeing all our loved ones congregate together on this special day to share the joy with us. i keep running through the day's events in my head, reminiscing and giving thanks for everything that God provided for the both of us.

a big kudos to my lifegroup, who stayed up so late the night before at the church to ensure that the truckload of flowers that my sister and i picked out were cleaned and arranged, and to the many friends who helped out with the wedding favours. 

i'm totally gonna document this crazy process in the next few weeks when i've some time, the list of crazy things i did myself/ with the help of others/ engaged help but worth blogging about:






invites

wedding bands


programme/ day's flow

if there was anything i should have done more, it was to get more sleep so i wouldn't have had to look like a zombie that day. and also, to engage a hair stylist for the morning (the hair stylist i engaged bailed out on us the last minute, and i decided to do my own hair and makeup. did it in an hour, but really wish it had been professional).

i still have yet to receive the crazy malacca wedding photos! that was an epic experience of a true-blue malaysian wedding.

Monday, October 3, 2016

married life thus far

it's been a month since i officially turned mrs lau! it's been such a whirlwind of events and adjustments in my life. shortly after our wedding in Singapore, we headed north for a dinner with my extended family, followed by 2 weeks in melbourne and sydney. been back for a week now of normal routine, and then got whisked away for a church retreat (3 days away from mr lau). i'm back and life is back to normal.

wait. better than normal.

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in the morning i get a hug to start the day.
we start our day with a prayer together over breakfast.
i no longer need to say goodbye to him at the end of the day.
we head back to do the chores together, and this boy is a champion at ironing, washing clothes, and organising stuff around the house.
one night, he played the keyboard, and i sang "a whole new world", till we fell asleep.
in the middle of the night, i open my eyes and see a handsome boy wrapped like a cocoon.

today, we are one month of being one. 
i got home to this. i love flower surprises and handwritten love letters!

looking forward to days of excitement and routine with you.

Sunday, August 28, 2016

What i look forward to after the wedding

To be able to relish in cutting the free edges of my nails till there is NONE LEFT.

For now, I've to contend with cleaning my under-nails every few hours. 

Saturday, July 30, 2016

another life

i am a great target for online shopping sites.

my shopper journey is literally 15 minutes - even for big ticket items. 4 weeks ago i decided to buy phones for papa & mama. papa uses an incredibly tiny sony ericsson 5 year old phone that lags like mad and uses dial pad for typing. unbelievable that there is whatsapp too. my mum experiences the same predicament, with a slightly bigger screen.

i decided to mai tu liao and checked out 2 HTC M7s on lazada. i just searched for some reviews and determined that the phone was an okay model. item shipped from overseas within a week. hui xin is a happy camper - especially seeing their delighted faces.

3 days later - mum calls to complain about the insane battery life. takes 8hrs to charge full load, wifi signal goes down to zero in her room. dad too. i was so upset that the phones ended up giving them more trouble!

informed lazada, they did a pickup rather seamlessly, messaged me a few days later to let me know a full refund was on the way. hui xin a happy camper again.

i just bought another pair of HTC phones (Desire 526+) on lazada again, in lieu of the good buyer protection policy. let's hope they do not fail me.

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in other words, it's just a month left to the big day! han yang and i on an overdrive, settling things in between work and on weekends. few days back, filmed our pre-wedding video after work, within 3 hours. that was a good big item to check off. wedding invites sent for printing, to our horror realising that we left out the dress code. printing out stickers for that, yikes. still left on our list:

- mail out invitations
- wedding favours (a ton of them)
- playlist
- firm up church wedding flow
- wedding speeches
- table plans
- his suits
- bridesmaids' dresses
- altering my gowns (gotta set a day for this)
- angbao box (got them to cut the wood for me alr!)
- 30% of wedding decor
- resizing my Etsy bought wedding band
- gifts for the parents

i think/ hope that is all.

Friday, July 1, 2016

home is where you are

i miss him!

we meet up on an average of twice a week due to our busy schedules. once on Sunday - our usual date day. we hang out for a few hours at a stretch, doing a variety of things that range from coffee (most often heh) to movies to reading books to nature trails. once on Monday nights, for Bahasa Melayu classes. and if we're lucky and schedules overlap in the week, we get a sliver of time on the bus home together. other than that, though we go to the same church, we rarely hang out then coz we're not in the same lifegroup. we are also in the worship team, but rarely get to serve together because our schedules just never coincide.

there are times life gets so busy it becomes a crazy whirlwind for the both of us that we don't get to drop each other text messages till the end of the day. but there are also times when i simply can't wait to drop everything just to see him, if even for a moment. 

i'd like to think that our relationship is somewhat like mutualism.

we are together, to help each other become better beings. :)

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these 2.5 weeks have been the same old busyness on my end, but i get these random moments where i would see something that i know would incite a reaction from him, and i would miss him a little more.

tomorrow!

and in just 2 months' time, he will be the face i get to wake up to every morning. ^^

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

less than 3

fever, cold sweat, muscle aches, diarrhea (20 times, and counting).
this isn't fun at all.

also, not if you end up working from home while on MC.

the upside is, my mum and bro have been complete sweethearts - they walked me to the clinic yesterday, have been preparing meals for me and kept me company with past 2 days. so thankful for them.

Friday, June 24, 2016

Fine artistry

I love the #MadeInSingapore series by Channel News Asia! It's so inspiring to hear of these old trades being kept alive, and new trades being picked up by millennials:

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/in-china-this-singaporean/2858274.html?cid=FBcna
Dizi and erhu

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/defiantly-he-weaves-life/2894104.html?cid=FBcna
Sarong kebaya embroidery

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/he-puts-his-soul-into-his/2522582.html
Bespoke leather shoes

Gives me so much inspiration, (and makes me wonder what I am doing, haha. Quell my pragmatism please.)

Tuesday, June 21, 2016

Never again.

Had a rather crazy Monday morning. On top of having Monday blues from doing extremely little work over the weekend, I just had to misplace my laptop on the bus because I was busy on my phone! Only realised it when I went into the MRT, sat down and thought "EH. How come my load feels.. light? Extremely light."

Mad rush to call lost and found hotline for SBS. No one picked up. Called mum to confirm that it wasn't left at home. Got berated by her. Got on a cab to New Bridge Road, where the bus service ended. In the meantime, called EZ-link to enquire for the bus plate number.

Got directed to transitlink. Called transitlink. Got directed again back to SBS, but on a different number. Operator took down my details, told me he would call in 30 minutes time.

Reached New Bridge Road, went to the office, made a report. 20 minutes later, a welcoming sight of my laptop in the arms of the staff at the office.

I've things to be thankful for, despite the rather bleak start to my day. I know I was sort of expecting my laptop to be returned, because I've always had pleasant experiences with lost and found! But my colleague told me that another ex-colleague had lost her laptop for good after leaving it behind in a taxi. I realised that I've just been really really lucky.

About 2 months back, I also made a horrible mistake of misplacing the phone in a taxi late at night. I usually check the seat to ensure that all my stuff were taken. This time around, I gave that customary glance, but it was so dark. I had dropped it while taking out cash for payment. Realised it when only I got home. Called my phone repeatedly. It rang for a while, and then for some reason, after a few rings, directed me to the operator. I thought "GG already. Confirm found by some crappy passenger." Continued to ring the phone multiple times. 5 minutes later, some one picked up! Some passenger going to Toa Payoh, and taxi uncle said he would make a U turn back to pass the phone back to me! I really couldn't believe it. I told him I could go collect from him, but he was insistent to come all the way back. I was so happy and bleeding with thankfulness. After much insistence, he accepted my token of gratitude (guised as 打油费). After today, I'm thankful beyond words to come across such honest people. I really think people in Singapore are generally honest. How else to explain how I manage to get such items back, multiple times?

Also, from my experience, the police takes their cases very seriously. My sis lost a phone on the bus once, and made a report just for the sake of reporting it lost. A few months later, she received a call that her phone had been found! They reviewed the CCTV in the bus and caught the culprit.

I may not be lucky when it comes to winning lucky draws (never won any in my life), but when it comes to finding lost stuff, I am more than thankful for the favour upon me. Though, someone stole $300 from me once in Vietnam.

Time to stop being so careless though!

Friday, June 17, 2016

Making my own Cheongsam

This year, I made it a point to spend at least 5 hours every week on something that I like.

And it has paid off handsomely because I managed to make my own Cheongsam! It's my first successful attempt - the last time I attempted to make my own prom dress when I was 16, it failed terribly. I don't know what possessed Huiyi and I to think that it would turn out well. It was silver, and shimmery, and a disaster. Haha. Oh well, I will let pictures do the talking!

I searched spotlight for hours but couldn't find cheongsam dress patterns in spotlight. So I took an old cheongsam that I no longer wanted and took the seams apart. Used it as a template for my dress pattern. My first attempt but I decided to go ambitious with a lace back cos I've been looking at so many photos of wedding cheongsams and their backs are all so gorgeous.

My first mistake - was trying to iron interfacing onto the seams and got impatient cos it wasn't sticking and set the temperature on overdrive. My poor lace couldn't take the heat and melted! Luckily it was salvage-able with a few stitches.

70% done. I was so impatient with the rouleau loops cos I had to hand sew them on one by one! There were 22 loops in total for the back. The invisible zip had to be sewn on by hand too cos I didn't have a foot for invisible zippers.

Finally done! My 'S' mannequin wears it perfectly, but the lace is loose at the back for me cos I'm flat chested :(

Upclose of the extremely chio back which I spent many hours on! I think I spent half the time on this. This chio back is extremely impractical because you can't wear the dress by yourself without missing out a few buttons/ spraining your back. I guess that's why only wedding cheongsams are made like that.

My mummy wore it, and she liked it a lot, and requested one for herself too. 
 
This time, no crazy backs like that.
 
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The weekend has arrived! My room is in a mess, and I've tons of designing/ craft to do for the wedding. Ambitious me, I am heading a huge craft project with the help of a few friends, and bought so much stuff from taobao! I've plain tote bags, glass bottles, leather, lip balm cases, paints and many more things lying all around my room. I'm aghast by its state.
 
I've decided also to blog more about DIYing the wedding with the help of taobao, cos it's been a huge help to me despite my busy schedule. And I realise not a lot of people blog about such things. Maybe it will help them or something.
 
After my wedding dresses all arrive, I'm gonna do a blog on how to order wedding dresses on taobao!   
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